Towards the end of each year, as a rule, the Christmas time is usually seen as happy and merry.
However, it is worth noting that during this period people may experience mixed feelings especially for those who have lost their loved ones.
During these festive seasons, the void of a loved one can make grief more painful for those who are walking through such times.
When one reflects on the things they had done together and how they are not going to be part of certain celebrations, sadness, anger, and extreme loneliness may increase even further.
Memories about shared traditions and missing pieces because these times will never happen again can make this kind of suffering stronger during Christmas.
They are usually reminded of their own loss by other people who spend the holidays in a very celebrative sense, and this can make them angry or envious.
People mourn differently. Some cry openly while others sit silently; others may seek solace in drug abuse to avoid the pain of grief.
In other words, there may be various behavioral changes during this time, that can result into an aggressive behavior, asocial tendencies, or a general lack of interest towards being involved in festivities.
However, if not dealt with properly it may lead to development of mental health problems later in life.
This means that understanding bereavement as a complex process and acknowledging diverse emotional reactions can help relieve the obligation to appear happy at Christmas time and enable more genuine emotion processing.
Among the hardships of going through bereavement at a time of festive season, grief-stricken people may find it in their hearts to pursue postponed activities, hence finding solace.
However, simple chores that involve house cleaning and repair works or home improvements, can divert thoughts from holidays and also enable one to exercise and sleep well.
Moreover, dedicating some time for remembrance rituals and paying tribute to late beloved ones can offer immense consolation.
Unearthing past photographs together with telling stories about them openly within family circles or even intimate friend groups can be therapeutic in getting over loss.
These honest interactions plus collective memory is what heals during a period of sorrow.
Speaking to compassionate people who feel the depth of grief can be calming. The heartfelt connections not only facilitate empathy but also create deep understanding and shared experiences among the bereaved.
It is important to allow oneself to experience grief at their own pace. Reflecting on the meaning and significance of one’s loss can be a profoundly personal and transformative experience that demands patience and introspection.
A short vacation during the holiday season is an invaluable escape from the usual conventions associated with this time of year.
This escape allows individuals to recharge themselves as well as have some moments of relief in their grieving process.
One must accept fluctuating emotions as part of life and understand that it is alright not to be okay during this period.
Moreover, seeking for assistance if need be is equally paramount. Recognizing when help is needed and reaching out for support systems can give you a guide and offer assistance in maneuvering through complex grief issues during festive seasons.
Professional help may not take away the pain caused by losing someone, but it can teach people how to handle grief more efficiently.
As we approach the holiday season, it is important to recognize and validate all the emotions that come with grief.
This way, they will be able to find solace in such a difficult situation and be able to move on eventually, celebrate those moments they shared together, seek professional help whenever necessary and show some level of acceptance.
